Sex Education

Orgy

 

An orgy is a sex party where guests freely engage in open and unrestrained sexual activity or group sex. It is not a new sexual practice, stories from ancient Rome and Greece can attest to that. Basically, orgies are organized for people of any of the sexes: it could be an all-male thing (as in gay orgies), an all-female orgy (in lesbian orgies) or a mix of both sexes. It could be among a group of ten males and two females or two females and five males or an equal number of males and females. Other sexes have their orgies too.

An orgy is different from a swinger’s party. At a swinger’s party, partners are exchanged and it would be a couple thing. However, in an orgy, everyone can have sex with anyone and there could threesomes and more. The major activity in an orgy is sex, any form of sex. From anal to vaginal, BDSM or another form of fetish.

The activities depend on the organizers of the orgy and the rules set down. Other side activities are drinking, smoking or even eating. Sex orgies have entered popular culture and is done by a large number of sexually active persons. For some young sexually active person, having an orgy might to be a rite of passage.

In usual cases, orgies can be done in private homes and clubs. There have been incidences or orgies happening on a beach or in an office. These ones don’t happen often as participants would like anonymity. You could be invited by a friend or want to plan an orgy, but you have to be safe and there are tips to help you stay safe while you are having fun.

How it happens

People meet in a private place, most often in a private club or someone with a larger dwelling. The meeting usually has one or more “hosts” who supervise and participate in the process. Unfortunately, alcohol and drugs are actually consumed at such events. This should contribute to discarding the barriers and evoking the atmosphere. Again, no one will force you.

The environment is usually dimly lit, with relaxing music, scented candles and plenty of sexual aids. The party ends when the host initiates or when they are already tired and “freaking out”. The more experienced ones can stay entertained for hours. There have been incidences of rape and murder in some orgies, so you might want to careful. Keep these in mind

  • Make sure that the organizers are well-known to you or institutions that can be trusted and held accountable.
  • Make sure it is among your group of friends who know you and you know them.

 

When in an orgy, here are some things you should have in mind:

  • Consent is key. You need to make sure to get clear verbal consent before each and every sex act. Can’t say it too many times.
  • It’s not always as easy to get in the sex mix as you think. A lot of people at sex parties just end up hooking up with whoever they came with. Be patient and don’t feel bad if you aren’t instantly the star of the cuddle-puddle.
  • At sex parties and orgies, as in life, rejection happens. Be gracious!

 

Some things to consider if you are attending an orgy with a partner

  • What do I and my partner expect from the group? Do we agree with expectations? If not, do not go into the group.
  • Will we have sex with acquaintances or unknown people? Can we imagine having sex with strangers? Is the idea pleasant to us?
  • Is it nice to have sex with more women? Can a partner imagine sex with more men?
  • Can I imagine sex in threesome with my partner and stranger? Want to share it?
  • How big is my jealousy? How is the jealousy partner?
  • Am I not afraid someone will be better and more efficient than I am? Can I accept it?
  • What I don’t want to venture into? Which activities are prohibited by me and my partner?

 

Try to agree with your partner in maximum points. If your opinions and expectations differ, give up group sex.

…and if you are single…

  • Am I open to allowing myself to be the dominant or submissive in any sexual act?
  • Do I like to be naked in front of other people?
  • Am I someone who loves to explore?

You should not consider attending an orgy if you have a problem with any of the questions

Things to go with

When attending an orgy, alone or with a partner, you might want to go with

  • A spare cloth
  • Condoms
  • Lube
  • Spare underwear
  • A bathing soap and cream

 

Pros

  • It can be a very pleasurable experience.
  • You get to explore other forms of sex with different people.
  • You get to explore your sexuality

 

Cons

  • You could be infected with an STI.
  • There is also, the possibility of being infected with non-sexual infections such as skin infections.
  • There is the possibility of becoming pregnant even when a condom is used.
  • Some men might experience weak erections because of the presence and looks from strangers.
  • There is the possibility of becoming jealous when you attend an orgy with your partner and you find them doing things that you have never seen them done before.

 

Sources:

https://educalingo.com/en/dic-en/orgies

https://reddish.life/pros-and-cons-of-group-sex/

 

 

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