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Drugs that enhance sexual performance

  Sexual enhancers are drugs which enhance (normal/abnormal) erectile function and aphrodisiacs which increase sexual arousal and desire. Erectile dysfunction has been a condition affecting men since ancient times. All early attempts to treat erectile dysfunction (e.g. inflatable penis implants and vacuum pumps) failed and it was not until the early 1990s that the treatment…

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Listen: 18: Unbundling sex, sexuality, sexual identity and sexual orientations | Basics of Sex

Sex Talking about sex and sexuality could be tiring because it is a broad topic. Asides intercourse, sex is “a label assigned at birth based on the reproductive organs you’re born with.”It’s generally how we divide society into two groups, male and female. Also note that there people born with both male and female reproductive…

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Cunnilingus      

  Cunnilingus also known as oral sex, licking someone out, eating someone out, going down on someone, and giving head is the fancy, official term used to describe when someone uses their mouth to stimulate someone else’s vulva or vagina. While many women and vulva-having people love cunnilingus because it focuses heavily on stimulating the clitoris and…

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Celibacy

  It might not in vogue today, but it is possible. Celibacy is a voluntary vow of sexual abstinence. In some cases, it can also be a promise to remain unmarried. Celibacy looks different to each person, so there’s no single way to practice it. Some people abstain from all sexual activity (including penetrative and…

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Listen: 27: Sexual shenanigans: who does it better, male or female? | Basics of Sex

Being bold, ‘dirty talks’, ‘being naughty’. There are a lot of terms are used to describe ways to spice a sexual activity or become kinky. Being sexually dominated, having sex with multiple people at once, watching someone undress without their knowledge. These are just a few of the totallynormal sexual fantasies uncovered by recent researchpublished…

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CROSS DRESSING

The practice of wearing the clothing of another gender figures largely in many media, literary, and popular cultural sources. In this lesson we will explore cross-dressing, including its definition, how the practice is viewed differently in Eastern and Western cultures, and the psychology behind it. Simply put, cross-dressing is the name for the act of a person…

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THE TRUTH ABOUT SEX INITIATION

Although teenagers feel that waiting to have sex is a nice idea, they believe that hardly anyone does it. In fact, many teens, particularly boys, feel pressure to have sex, and they say drugs and alcohol usually lead to sex — often without condoms. Past research has found that social influence is associated with behaviors such as…

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Coprophilia

Coprophilia is an erotic fascination with feces and general filth and uncleanliness. When a person experiences some type of sexual pleasure associated with feces, they are called coprophiliacs. Coprophiliacs enjoy either watching people defecate, defecating on someone themselves, being defecated on, smearing feces (scatolia), and sometimes eating feces (coprophagia). In some adults, coprophilia may manifest…

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BDSM

  BDSM is an umbrella term that describes certain sexual acts or forms of sex. It stands for bondage, dominance, and submission/sadomasochism. The practice usually involves partners taking on specific roles in which one partner is dominant and the other is submissive and may involve such things as role-playing specific scenes or pain play. While…

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Axillary intercourse

  A lot of people have sex differently, because everyone has different tastes and different ways of expressing such tastes. Whether with inanimate objects like stuffed animals and women’s shoes, or simply by using a unique body part in a sexual way (partialism), there are many ways to have uncommon forms of intercourse. Axillary intercourse…

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Listen: 13: Natural contraceptive cracked: the good, the bad and the ugly | Basics of Sex

Contraception is defined as the intentional prevention of pregnancy through the use of various methods, are a type of birth control that relies on observations about the woman’s body andmenstrual cycle. These methods are sexual practices, chemicals, drugs, or surgical procedures. Thus, any device or act whose purpose is to prevent a woman from becoming…

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Abstinence

  Grace thought hard as she sat in park this sunny afternoon. Her mind drifted to the visit to see her boyfriend, that visit might be the last one, this seem like the end of her relationship with Rob. She had had a fight with her boyfriend few hours ago. He had been away to…

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Analingus

  It has a lot of names; rimming, ass licking, eating ass, but whatever you call it, it is the act of pleasuring the anus orally. It consists in licking, sucking, kissing, and any other pleasurable act that where the tongue and mouth are used to pleasure the anus. Most thing think that it is…

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Listen: 10: Let’s talk about foreplay and everything you should know about it | Basics of Sex

Foreplay has a reputation as a warm-up or leads into sex, the appetizer to the main course—which isintercourse. But maybe it’s time we stop thinking about it in such an old-school way. After all, only 30% of women can reach orgasm from penis-in-vagina penetration alone. It’s the moves we typically think of as foreplay—clitoral stroking,…

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Masturbation

  Three years ago, Mensa, Fred and I returned from work. We shared an apartment with another friend of ours, Teddy. As young men who had just finished the National Youth Service Corps, our hopes were high and we decided to build a career in one of Nigeria’s busiest cities. As we came home on…

Being Steve | Fantasy | Opinion

Being Steve

  I am Steve and I see colours. I don’t for how long it has been but I see them every day and everywhere. I have tried to close my eyes to them, I have pretended they were not there but the longer I did that I have come to realize that colours exist in…

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Anal sex

  Are you interested in having more adventures with your partner? Have you heard about anal sex? It is a form of sex that can be very pleasurable. It has been around for quite a long time now. The ancient Greeks and Romans were known to engage in it, both in heterosexual and homosexual sex….

Gender Issues | Opinion | Sex Education

Who’s more selfish in relationships, girls or guys?

Men and women are basically entirely different species. A girl may say she hangs with the guys more than her girlfriends or a guy may in fact be more sensitive than the average, however, they are still from completely different and separate planets. One of the biggest relationship deal-breakers is cheating. Whether it was a onetime fling…

Gender Issues | Sex Education

Unbundling sex, sexuality, sexual identity and sexual orientations

Sex Talking about sex and sexuality could be tiring because it is a broad topic. Asides intercourse, sex is “a label assigned at birth based on the reproductive organs you’re born with.” It’s generally how we divide society into two groups, male and female. Also note that there people born with both male and female reproductive organs….