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Listen: 24: What to do when aroused in a public place | Basics of Sex
Picture this. You are on a bus and listening to the radio or music using a headset. The bus stops to allow a passenger alight and there comes in a passenger. You look up and sees that they are this person who has come in is very attractive and has the looks of that person…

What do you know about cross dressing?
The practice of wearing the clothing of another gender figures largely in many media, literary, and popular cultural sources. In this article, we will explore cross-dressing, including its definition, how the practice is viewed differently in Eastern and Western cultures, and the psychology behind it. Simply put, cross-dressing is the name for the act of…

Listen: 16: The science of the female sex act | Basics of Sex
Sexual behavior, the composite of physiologic, anatomic, and psycho-social factors, is unique in every individual, and therefore, no one definition of sexual behavior is universally accepted. The female sex organs make it possible for women to become pregnant and give birth to children. But they have other important jobs, too: They produce hormones, control the…

What you didn’t know about Anal, Vaginal or oral sex
Oral sex: Oral sex is using your mouth and tongue to stimulate your partner’s genitals or anus. Oral sex can be given to any of the sexes to any of the sexes. A man’s penis does not need to be erect for you to start oral sex (a blow job) but you may want to…

THE TRUTH ABOUT SEX INITIATION
Although teenagers feel that waiting to have sex is a nice idea, they believe that hardly anyone does it. In fact, many teens, particularly boys, feel pressure to have sex, and they say drugs and alcohol usually lead to sex — often without condoms. Past research has found that social influence is associated with behaviors such as…

Listen: 23: Dealing with guilt and the morality of sex | Basics of Sex
Sex can be fun, liberating, and utterly wonderful, but not always. Sometimes it feels like something is missing after sex. Sometimes we think that it shouldn’t have happened or should have been different. Sex means different things to different people. Above all, it is a healthy and natural activity. It is something most people enjoy…

Listen: 15: The science of the male sex act | Basics of Sex
Sex is the most talked-about, joked about, thought-about issue in popular culture. It is the subject of songs, movies, and even television adverts. Every grown adult is expected to know how to do it, but beyond the basic mechanics we’re not taught about it and fiction is coy. We are not short of information on…

Listen: 17: Can sexual pressures be controlled? | Basics of Sex
Peer pressure is always tough to deal with, especially when it comes to sex. Some teenagers decide to have sexual relationships because their friends think sex is cool. Others feel pressured by the person they are dating. Still, others find it easier to give in and have sex than to try to explain why not….

Listen: 14: Natural or artificial contraception? What teens need to know | Basics of Sex
You come to the point of your where you begin to realize that you are your own individual. The most obvious event in this time of your life is the development of the sexual organs and the discovery of sexual attraction. You will begin to feel things you have never felt before, you will hear…

Listen: 29: The truth about sex initiation | Basics of Sex
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Listen: 13: Natural contraceptive cracked: the good, the bad and the ugly | Basics of Sex
Contraception is defined as the intentional prevention of pregnancy through the use of various methods, are a type of birth control that relies on observations about the woman’s body andmenstrual cycle. These methods are sexual practices, chemicals, drugs, or surgical procedures. Thus, any device or act whose purpose is to prevent a woman from becoming…

Should you consider abstinence? Here is what you should know about it
Grace thought hard as she sat in the park this sunny afternoon. Her mind drifted to the visit to see her boyfriend, that visit might be the last one, this seems like the end of her relationship with Rob. She had had a fight with her boyfriend a few hours ago. He had been…

Listen: 20: PUBERTY FOR BOYS | Basics of Sex
Puberty occurs in boys just as in girls and has a profound effect on the way they view themselves and their bodies. It ushers the boys into a period, the teenage years. This period is a form of rite of passage into adulthood. Just as in girls, a lot of emotions flood into their minds….

Listen: 12: Mood Swings | Basics of Sex
Everybody has mood swings and they are a natural part of most people’s lives. We get happy, we get sad. We have a period of feeling on top of the world, and then later on the same day, we feel tired, lethargic, and beaten down. Small mood swings are a part of most people’s lives….

Listen: 21: PUBERTY FOR GIRLS | Basics of Sex
There comes a time in the life of every organism on the face of this planet where they reproduce and bring forth new life. This is essential for the continual survival of that organism. For reproduction to take place, changes take place in the body of the organism, to prepare it to take on this…

Listen: 30: Sex: Oral, Vaginal, oral
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Listen: 19: What guys should know about the menstrual cycle | Basics of Sex
The female reproductive system is a complex one. The major phenomenon being the Menstrual cycle. The menstrual cycle is a group of many different phases which prepares a woman’s body to become pregnant. It makes the uterus fertile, releasing hormones and eggs for the fertilization to take place. This article shall focus on the some…

Listen: 26: Does penile size matter? | Basics of Sex
For many men around the world, one very personal subject has often been a cause for worry: the size of their penis.These concerns are caused by many things, including the number of false ideas there are about: what the average penis size is how important penis size is to sex what penis size means to…

Listen: 22: What is love and is it synonymous with sexual intercourse? | Basics of Sex
Love is involuntary. Brain science tells us it’s a drive like a thirst. It’s a craving for a specific person. Love, like thirst, will make you do strange things. It’s anaturaladdiction and treating it as addiction can help you. We were built to fall in love.The ancient Greeks called love “the madness of the gods.”…

Listen: 11: Male insecurities about their bodies and sexual performance | Basics of Sex
It is not news that the male ego is a fragile one and once in a while, they need reassurances. Sex and anxiety go together like socks and flip-flops; i.e. not well at all. Men feel a bit insecure, whether they are aware of this or not. When it comes to the bedroom, however, men…

Things about analingus that you didn’t know
It has a lot of names; rimming, ass licking, eating ass, but whatever you call it, it is the act of pleasuring the anus orally. It consists of licking, sucking, kissing, and any other pleasurable act where the tongue and mouth are used to pleasure the anus. Most things think that it is an…

Listen: 10: Let’s talk about foreplay and everything you should know about it | Basics of Sex
Foreplay has a reputation as a warm-up or leads into sex, the appetizer to the main course—which isintercourse. But maybe it’s time we stop thinking about it in such an old-school way. After all, only 30% of women can reach orgasm from penis-in-vagina penetration alone. It’s the moves we typically think of as foreplay—clitoral stroking,…

Listen: 9: Let’s talk about the LGBTQIA+ | Basics of Sex
Sexuality, among other things, is an individual choice. It is the portrayal of our sexual attractions and inclinations. It is in this limelight, we should understand the many diversity the LGBTQIA+ community portrays and welcomes in her fold. An understanding of this diversity will clear a lot of doubts cast on those who identify themselves…

Listen: 8: Sex in a public place: right or wrong? | Basics of Sex
Has it ever occurred to you to have sex in public or is it something you have done? This is something not restricted to an age range, surprisingly, persons from any age group have considered sometimes: the college teacher who has sex in the back of the school, the taxi driver and his partner in…

Listen: 7: How to negotiate sex | Basics of Sex
Let’s talk about sex. Or more to the point, let’s talk about women’s role in gender disparity in issues of sex and fair play. Maybe it’s time we picked up a shard of glass from the so-called glass ceilings purportedly breaking around the world and use it as a lens to examine myths we’ve operated…

Listen: 28: Who’s more selfish in relationships, girls or guys? | Basics of Sex
Men and women are basically entirely different species. A girl may say she hangs with the guysmore than her girlfriends or a guy may in fact be more sensitive than the average, however, they are still from completely different and separate planets. One of the biggest relationship deal-breakers is cheating. Whether it was a onetime…

The things we do indoor | Unraveling the shame around masturbation
Three years ago, Mensa, Fred, and I returned from work. We shared an apartment with another friend of ours, Teddy. As young men who had just finished the National Youth Service Corps, our hopes were high and we decided to build a career in one of Nigeria’s busiest cities. As we came home on…

Listen: 6: Is Female Orgasm a Myth? | Basics of Sex
The argument is that a woman does not experience orgasm and is only satisfied by the thrusting motions of the man during sexual intercourse. Some have suggested that the size of the penis is also a contributing factor to sexual satisfaction for women. Yet others still claim that a woman cannot reach orgasm by penetrative…

So, what do you know about anal sex?
Are you interested in having more adventures with your partner? Have you heard about anal sex? It is a form of sex that can be very pleasurable. It has been around for quite a long time now. The ancient Greeks and Romans were known to engage in it, both in heterosexual and homosexual sex….

Listen: 5: Female insecurities about their bodies and sexual performance | Basics of Sex
Insecurity pops up but should not be a stumbling block to having a wonderful sex life and relationship. In fact, if you talk to most women about the insecurities with which they struggle during sex, there’s a good chance you’ll get more than an earful from both genders. While both genders have their struggles, women,…

Listen: 4: Erogenous zones and how to keep them stimulated | Basics of Sex
Ever get goosebumps when a partner touches a certain part of your body? Congratulations! Your body is covered in highly sensitive areas you may never have even thought to explore. Stimulating these areas can lead to sexual response, which means you’re in for a satisfying time. These erogenous zones, as they’re called, can contribute to sexual…

3: Let’s talk about contraception, to use or not? | Basics of Sex
People use contraception for a range of reasons. In this article, let us talk about the benefits of contraception, including individual, community, and societal benefits. Contraception can be used to plan when women and couples have children and how many children they have. This includes choosing when they want to begin having children how far…

2: Communicating sexual information to your partner | Basics of Sex
Sex is one of the most intimate things you can do with another person. But talking about it can be a lot harder than you imagined. You might imagine that your partner will feel bad or feel insecure or it is just a no-go area to talk about. Maybe you’ve had mismatched libidos for a…

Artificial Contraceptives Cracked | Basics of Sex
Contraceptives are the various drugs, techniques, or devices which are used to prevent pregnancy. Hence they are birth control methods that try to stop this happening by: keeping the egg and sperm apart stopping egg production stopping the combined sperm and egg (fertilized egg) attaching to the lining of the womb. You can read more…

Who’s more selfish in relationships, girls or guys?
Men and women are basically entirely different species. A girl may say she hangs with the guys more than her girlfriends or a guy may in fact be more sensitive than the average, however, they are still from completely different and separate planets. One of the biggest relationship deal-breakers is cheating. Whether it was a onetime fling…

What do you do when you’re sexually aroused in a public place?
Picture this. You are on a bus and listening to the radio or music using a headset. The bus stops to allow a passenger to alight and there comes in a passenger. You look up and sees that they are this person who has come in is very attractive and has the looks of…

What is love and is it synonymous with sexual intercourse?
Love is involuntary. Brain science tells us it’s a drive like thirst. It’s a craving for a specific person. Love, like thirst, will make you do strange things. It’s a natural addiction and treating it like an addiction can help you. We were built to fall in love. The ancient Greeks called love “the madness of the gods.” …

What guys should know about the menstrual cycle
Tony was 23 years old when he started working as an intern in a not-for-profit organization. There he met a girl. Her name was Nancy. He was very attracted to her and she was attracted to him too. They went on dates and found that they liked almost the same things. It seemed like the…

Unbundling sex, sexuality, sexual identity and sexual orientations
Sex Talking about sex and sexuality could be tiring because it is a broad topic. Asides intercourse, sex is “a label assigned at birth based on the reproductive organs you’re born with.” It’s generally how we divide society into two groups, male and female. Also note that there people born with both male and female reproductive organs….

The science of the male sex act
Arguably, sex is the most talked-about, joked about, thought-about issue in popular culture. It is the subject of songs, movies, and even television adverts. Every grown adult is expected to know how to do it, but beyond the basic mechanics we’re not taught about it and fiction is coy. We are not short of…

The science of the female sex act
Sexual behavior, which comprises physiologic, anatomic, and psycho-social factors, is unique in every individual, and therefore, no one definition of sexual behavior is universally accepted. The female sex organs make it possible for women to become pregnant and give birth to children. But they have other important jobs, too: They produce hormones, control the process…

Sexual shenanigans: who does it better, male or female?
Being bold, ‘dirty talks’, ‘being naughty’. There are a lot of terms are used to describe ways to spice a sexual activity or become kinky. Being sexually dominated, having sex with multiple people at once, watching someone undress without their knowledge. These are just a few of the totally normal sexual fantasies uncovered by recent research published in…

Sex in a public place: right or wrong?
Has it ever occurred to you to have sex in public or is it something you have done? This is something not restricted to an age range, surprisingly, persons from any age group have considered sometime: the college teacher who has sex in the back of the school, the taxi driver and his partner in…

PUBERTY FOR BOYS
Puberty occurs in boys just as in girls and has a profound effect on the way they view themselves and their bodies. It ushers the boys into a period, the teenage years. This period is a form of rite of passage into adulthood. Just as in girls, a lot of emotions flood into their…

PUBERTY FOR GIRLS
There comes a time in the life of every organism on the face of this planet where they reproduce and bring forth new life. This is essential for the continual survival of that organism. For reproduction to take place, changes take place in the body of the organism, to prepare it take on this role…

Peer pressures related to sex initiation
Teens and peer pressure are a common combination, with peer pressure statistics showing that when teens’ friends ask them to smoke or drink, they are more likely to do so. One peer pressure definition describes it as occurring when a teen does something he or she normally wouldn’t do to fit in with friends. While peer pressure can be…

Natural or artificial contraception? What teens need to know
Dear teenager, You come to the point of your where you begin to realize that you are your own individual. The most obvious event in this time of your life is the development of the sexual organs and the discovery of sexual attraction. You will begin to feel things you have never felt before, you…

Natural contraceptive cracked: the good, the bad and the ugly
Contraception is defined as the intentional prevention of pregnancy through the use of various methods, are a type of birth control that relies on observations about the woman’s body and menstrual cycle. These methods are sexual practices, chemicals, drugs, or surgical procedures. Thus, any device or act whose purpose is to prevent a woman from becoming…

What mood swings are and how to work your way through it
Everybody has mood swings and they are a natural part of most people’s lives. We get happy, we get sad. We have a period of feeling on top of the world, and then later on the same day, we feel tired, lethargic, and beaten down. Small mood swings are a part of most people’s lives….